Lady Confessions: Is Valentine’s Day…a SEXY day?

Valentine’s Day is supposed to be a romantic holiday, but is it a SEXY holiday? Why or why not?


 I don’t find Valentine’s Day romantic so much as consumeristic.  I think the original intention of Valentine’s Day is nice and all, and I’ll definitely use it as an excuse to eat all of the chocolate and buy myself my husband a gift, but no thanks.  So, sexy?  No, not after I’ve eaten an entire box of candy hearts.  Besides, who shaves their legs in the winter? 😉


I don’t really have much to say about Valentine’s Day. I’m one of those people that doesn’t believe in the holiday as I don’t think couples should need a holiday to make them be nice to each other. 😛


As one of the single ladies, I normally celebrate ‘Galentine’s Day’ with my lady friends. To me, it’s just a night to dress up, go out with the girls and do something fun and girly. I think movies and TV give us the idea that Valentine’s is supposed to be some super romantic, grand gesture kind of day, but I’d rather have lots of small gestures on a regular basis rather than put pressure on an arbitrary day.


 No, I don’t think of it as a “sexy” day. I mean, I think it’s important for people to tell each other how they feel, even if you need to be motivated by a specific day of the year. In my eyes, it’s more important to do something you enjoy with a person you care about, be it significant other or not. So no, not sexy at all then.

I don’t hate Valentine’s Day, but I’ve never really dug it. I certainly don’t find it sexy. My boyfriend and I have never celebrated Valentine’s Day together- mainly because I forget, but also I don’t care. I usually give him a card and just write him something really meaningful in it. If anything, it’s a cheesy holiday. You know what’s sexy? Spontaneity! I’d prefer to be wined and dined when I least expect it- rather than building up hype for one day a year. Call me a Negative Nancy, but Valentine’s Day just isn’t my thing.


It’s just another excuse to buy and wear sexy undergarments for your partner.

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